IYI Newsletter: struggle + stack + go


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Happy Monday!

This week's newsletter is about the difference between moving forward and getting stuck. When things get tough, most freeze. But progress isn’t about avoiding struggle, waiting for the perfect moment, or mastering just one thing. It’s about asking sharper questions, owning what sets you apart, and taking bold action—especially when it feels hard.

struggle.

When the world is crumbling around you, what will make you rise when others collapse? NBA legend Kobe Bryant once taught Chris Bosh a lesson that changed everything: Love the struggle. When things got tough, Bosh remembered Kobe’s advice and asked himself, “How many people would quit right now?” That one question pushed him forward while others fell away.

Adversity is part of every journey. The difference between those who rise and those who fall often comes down to the questions we ask ourselves. When you hit a wall, start with: “How many people would quit right now?” Then, dig deeper—What can I learn from this? Who can help me through? What will I do next?

Hard times don’t disappear with positive thinking. But the right questions can help you see through the storm and make your next best decision. The time to prepare for adversity is before it arrives. If you’re in a good place, write down the questions you’ll ask yourself when life gets hard. When the tough times come, you’ll be ready to keep moving forward.

try it:

If you are in a difficult situation, ask yourself these questions:

  1. What's my why?
  2. What can I control right now?
  3. Whose counting on me to keep going?
  4. What would I regret if I gave up?

stack.

Don’t aim to be the best—aim to be the only. One tech founder puts it this way: "Your edge comes from assembling a rare combination of talents, experiences, and traits that no one else can match." Kevin Kelly calls this “being the only.” It’s not about dominating a single field, but about stacking your skills—ability to connect, hard work, storytelling, listening, leadership—until you become impossible to copy.

You may not be the top performer in any one area, but your unique blend sets you apart. It’s the intersection of your abilities, background, and passions that creates something truly extraordinary. Maybe it’s a hidden hobby, a past job, or a personal trait that gives you an insight others lack. That’s your one-of-one advantage.

I learned this firsthand early in my career, when I discovered that my teaching background set me apart from my peers in performance consulting. I didn’t expect it, but it became my X factor. Your unique experiences might be your greatest advantage, even if they seem unrelated.

try it:

What’s your talent stack? What do you have or do that no one else does? What previous experience do you have that may not be related to what you do now, but allows you to look at things differently than everyone else? Lean into that, and you’ll carve out a space only you can fill.

go.

What’s the one thing you’re dreading today? That task you keep pushing back—the tough conversation, the uncomfortable workout, the challenge you wish would disappear. Here’s the truth: the cold water doesn’t get warmer if you jump late.

Attack the hard thing first. It’s tempting to trick yourself with “productive” procrastination—making lists, reading, doing anything but the thing that matters most. But every moment you wait, that task grows heavier in your mind.

Action is the antidote. Don’t let fear or overthinking paralyze you. Take the first step: pick up the phone, have the tough conversation, start the workout. The sooner you dive in, the lighter you’ll feel and the more you’ll accomplish.

try it:

What’s your hard thing? What’s one action you can take—right now—to move it forward? Stop waiting. Jump in. Your future self will thank you for doing so.


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